It’s hard to enjoy life by not being you. People, who don’t learn to accept what they actually are, find more difficulties and problems in live. Sometimes it feels like being original is just impossible. But that’s not true. You need to admit that there is no one like you, no one is as quite as you, and no one can truly understand you as you do. That is how you started learning you and feels the original individuality of you. When you start knowing the actual you, you crave to learn more and wanted to be your original version not just the ordinary one. So what is necessary? What one needed to extract his inner originality? Well let’s dig it and get those answers.
Every great architect is necessarily a great poet. He must be a great original interpreter of his time, his day, his age.
Acknowledging your unique side, every single day you meet people and find some basic similarities in you and them for example similar clothes, similar books to read, some similar TV show to watch etc. But the way you do things have different prospective and point of view then others have. Well this is the unique side of yours. You are already unique. All you need to do is just do things in a way you wanted to be not the way you look at them.
Find your passion: ask yourself for what you are passionate about? What things you really wanted to do in life. This will let you know about your goals and dreams and help you out to reach them. It also makes you able to listen yourself closely. Once you find it, don’t get anyone let it down. Try to share things with like-minded people.
This is what I learned that everybody is talented, original and has something important to say.
Try to develop interest in new things. Specific knowledge about things is not enough, explore new things. Seeking new ways will change your perspective in many ways and allow you to know yourself much deeper. Try to take part in things you don’t know before like playing some musical instrument, learning new technology or getting into some art class. Also try to take time for some general talks and seminars. Meet new people and learn what point of view they possess about life. This all will feel you livelier and you will learn to know the closer picture of life.
When we talk about being original, it is also needed to know the fact that how we represent ourselves to others. Look yourself at the mirror and find what is needed to change, make experiments. Try new things, it could be any. If you feel you are bore with your hairs, just get a new hair cut you like most, experiment with new make-up products, refresh your wardrobe. Think about what you currently like and what is unnecessary to you. Buy new stuff and use them. This all will allows you to give attention to your own self and brings your individuality much closer to you.
In stand-up it really helps to play yourself and talk about your own feelings. You can’t fail to be original if you are just talking about what you think about X, Y and Z. Unless you have got a twin brother who’s also a stand-up.
So I just try to combine up all the goodies you can do if you really feel a desire of being yourself and being original. It always feels good when you feel your originality instead the ordinary personality. We should all need to think for once either we are original or just working like an average man? Well the decision is yours!
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