Laying to someone is much upsetting and hurtful. Most of us never notice how one can get upset by little lies we speak regularly with friends family and even with the close once. People lie because they are scared of being telling the truth. I don’t know what a lot of you think when you tell a lie but I personally found that being lied is one of the worst feelings in world. A truth may give little pain but the embarrassment, shame and feeling of betrayed being lied is for life time.
The saddest thing is when we stuck in our lies and don’t want to get out of it. Even most people don’t just really feel ashamed of being lied. So what one does? Is it okay to save you just by telling a lie? No! It’s always a no. Lies are not the accurate solution, truth is better. truth always bound the relation where lie tear it.
A person can lie for many reasons, but what important is to ignore him. So many times we ignore others lie just to keep the relation a live but this not right. Tell them the truth! If you don’t like something in someone just tell them.
Some people think that the truth can be hidden with a little cover-up and decoration. But as time goes by, what is true is revealed, and what is fake fades away
Just Be Honest With Yourself
If you lied to someone, give yourself time and try to figure it out what makes you lie to him. Try to make focus on things you dislike in him. When you truly understand about the feelings for another person you start making good moves and never lie to people.
If It Is Difficult Just Write It
It mostly happens in relationships when we could not communicate our desires to our love ones. Sometimes the truth is so tangled and complicated to even tell. They best way is to write your feelings and send it. In simple words convey your thoughts via massage. You may write a card, a note or a letter. This practice is much relatable when it comes to feelings. If could tell the truth about your feelings you could end up you life as half lived.
Everything we hear is an option, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth
Evaluate What Actually You Like
Ask yourself like do you really enjoys others company? Or something big that makes you happy. Its your life so your happiness is much important then others happiness. You have right to express your personal opinion. What’s major could happen if you express your true feelings? Something might change but as long as you tell the truth you are on the right path.
So guys as Mark Twain says
If you tell the truth, you don’t have to remember anything
Well I totally agree being truth to yourself and your needs help you most in life.
Tell me if you find this article help full and also share your views what you actually do when you think of a lie.