When we talk about winning someone’s heart, it most likely related to act nicely, do kind deeds or have some admirable looks. Most of the times people get upset, though they have friends and family to enjoy with. But still they feel like something is missing or think weather they are still important? Are they an admiring personality? Do people like them? These are the small thoughts a man worry’s for. However on the other side, it also happens that we hurt our close ones and find ways to win their heart make apologies and tries to make things better as before. Today I’ll be sharing some ways with you guys if you find yourself feeling the same anxiety of being unimportant or just trying hard to wins your friend’s attention.
To win the heart of others you must lose some colors of your EGO
So the first practice while influencing people is to listen what they say. Try to be a good listener among your friend zone. Many times people want to share their problems but they find no way. When you start giving your friend genuine time and listen their problems they feel valuable and special. They started trusting you and always wanted to discuss things with you. This will increase your chance to win their heart.
Another way to influence people is to greet them with great smile. A beautiful smile always helps in getting other people attention. It also gives good impression. Think of a meeting in which your colleague is discussing some business issues and he looks firm; no smile, no extra gesture. Than what will you think about him? You definitely think him as rude guy or an unhappy person or anything. But if he speaks to you and slightly passes smile while talking. With this attitude of his you definitely feel relax and disuse things in easy and comfortable environment. Well this is the power of smile. It allows you to open and kill unnecessary fears. It also helps influencing people at first sight.
Be sorry if you are mistaken, many times we make mistakes in a relation but not make apology. It is because our ego comes on the way and don’t let us think about our mistakes. Or sometimes we think if we apologies first, this may lower our dignity. But this all is not an appropriate approach of good relationship. Being sensible with your acts and tries to make apology from first side is the best way to keep a relation strong and long lasting. If you say sorry from sincere heart, you definitely win the hearts.
Step back if you don’t like something. It happens in parties or in group discussions that we disagreed someone or don’t like anything he says. We totally started hating that person and often say bad and nasty words about him. Now this is a bad approach and most of your friends will just start disliking you for this behavior. Always remember to be polite and sophisticated among friends and try to respect every individual you meet.
It is nice to be important, but it’s more important to be nice.
If you feel you don’t like someone just step back and try to avoid that person instead of insulting him. This is how you can be in good eyes of others.
So today we get to know some important key points about how to being nice and keep in eyes of others. Life is all about happiness and giving chance to make other moment happy. If we have family and friends we must try to make our bond and relation strong and try ways to make them happy. That is how we can win others heart and the life to its fullest.
Please let me know if you find this article helpful. If you are having trouble with your friends. I hope these ways can help you out and make your relation better!